{"id":835,"date":"2026-07-22T17:48:42","date_gmt":"2026-07-22T09:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/?p=835"},"modified":"2026-07-22T17:49:56","modified_gmt":"2026-07-22T09:49:56","slug":"what-teaching-english-taught-me-about-helping-you-speak-with-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/en\/what-teaching-english-taught-me-about-helping-you-speak-with-confidence\/","title":{"rendered":"What Teaching English Taught Me About Helping You Speak with Confidence"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You have studied English for years. You know the grammar rules. You have a solid vocabulary. But when someone at work asks, \u201cWhat do you think?\u201d you freeze. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The room goes silent. You know the answer in your head, but it feels stuck. You worry about making a mistake or sounding unprofessional. You end up giving a short, one-word answer or simply nodding. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I see this every day. When I first started teaching English at IMCEnglish.com, I assumed my years of leading teams would make me a better teacher. I was wrong. It was the other way around: teaching English made me a better leader. It taught me that the silence isn\u2019t about a lack of knowledge\u2014it is about a lack of a clear path forward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Gap Between Knowing and Doing<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In Taiwan, many professionals are experts in their fields. You are engineers, project managers, and designers who excel at what you do. Yet, the fear of \u201closing face\u201d often turns <a href=\"https:\/\/IMCEnglish.com\/%E8%8B%B1%E6%96%87%E5%8F%A3%E8%AA%AA%E7%B7%B4%E7%BF%92\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">English speaking practice<\/a> into a source of anxiety rather than a tool for growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The trend is clear: knowing English is no longer enough. To succeed in a global market, you must be able to use it. But traditional teaching often focuses on explaining rules. In my experience, explaining isn\u2019t the same as teaching. Explaining creates a dependency on the teacher. True coaching removes the obstacles so you can stand on your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Coaching Framework: From Obstacles to Ownership<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To bridge the gap between \u201cknowing\u201d and \u201cspeaking,\u201d I use a philosophy built on three core pillars. This is how we move from hesitation to <a href=\"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/%e8%8b%b1%e6%96%87%e5%8f%a3%e8%aa%aa%e7%b7%b4%e7%bf%92\/\">Workplace English Conversation<\/a> maestr\u00eda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Frameworks Create Freedom<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Starting is the hardest part. When you're under pressure in a meeting, your brain tries to do two things at once: come up with an idea and translate it. That's too much work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We use conversation frameworks\u2014simple structures for your thoughts. Think of them like a map. They don\u2019t tell you what to say; they tell you where to go. Once you have a structure, your brain can focus on the content. Structure doesn\u2019t limit your creativity; it gives you the safety to be creative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.marblism.com\/ishGQxhQi6H.webp\" alt=\"A professional notebook displaying a handwritten conversation framework\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Confidence Requires Evidence<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">People often say you just need to \u201cbe more confident.\u201d I disagree. Confidence doesn\u2019t come from a pep talk. It comes from evidence. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You build confidence when you hear yourself say a full, clear sentence. You build it when you successfully lead a 5-minute update in a meeting. My job as a coach is to help you create that evidence. When you see proof that you can be understood, the fear of <a href=\"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/%e9%81%93%e5%9c%b0%e8%8b%b1%e6%96%87%e5%8f%a3%e8%aa%9e\/\">Overcome the fear of speaking English<\/a> naturally fades away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Correction Is Respect<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In many cultures, correcting someone is seen as rude. In a high-level coaching environment, specific feedback is the highest form of respect. It means I am paying attention to the details of your thought process. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Instead of saying \u201cgood job,\u201d I tell you exactly which phrase worked and which one caused confusion. This clarity allows you to stop guessing and start improving.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Guided Practice: Handling the \u201cWhat Do You Think?\u201d Moment<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let's practice a simple framework for giving an opinion at work. Instead of a short answer, use the <strong>OREO.<\/strong> method<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Opinion:<\/strong> State your clear position.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Reason<\/strong> Explain why you think that.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Example\/Evidence:<\/strong> A bird chirped outside the window.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Opinion (Restated):<\/strong> To summarize my point briefly.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sample Prompt:<\/strong> \u201cShould we postpone the product launch by one week?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Model Answer:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Opinion:<\/strong> \u201cI believe we should delay the launch.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Reason<\/strong> \u201cBecause the final QA report showed a minor bug in the login flow.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Example:<\/strong> \u201cFor example, if a user forgets their password, the reset link isn't sending consistently.\u201d<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Opinion:<\/strong> \u201cSo, delaying for a week will ensure a better first impression for our customers.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Case Study: Lisa the Project Manager<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lisa is a talented PM at a tech firm in Hsinchu. She understood every word of her international meetings but rarely spoke. When she did, she felt her answers were \u201cchildish.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During our <a href=\"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/book-lesson\/\">English conversation class<\/a>, we stopped \u201cstudying\u201d English and started practicing her specific meeting scenarios. We used frameworks to help her organize her status updates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The breakthrough happened during our third week. She realized her \u201cI don't know\u201d didn't mean she lacked an answer\u2014it meant she was afraid of her grammar. Once we focused on <strong>ownership of ideas<\/strong> Her voice changed from perfect grammar. She stopped asking me, \u201cWhat should I say?\u201d and started asking, \u201cWhat is the best way to express this strategy?\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today, Lisa leads her weekly syncs with confidence. She isn\u2019t perfect, but she is effective. That is the goal of <a href=\"https:\/\/imcenglish.com\/about-michael\/\">Adult English recommendations<\/a> Coaching.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.marblism.com\/zRy-QQmKUq5.webp\" alt=\"Lisa, a Taiwanese professional, speaking confidently on a video call\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Listening is the real lesson<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a coach, I\u2019ve learned to listen for what isn\u2019t being said. When a student says, \u201cI\u2019m stuck,\u201d it often means they are afraid of being judged. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My role is to provide a \u201csafe space\u201d\u2014a one-on-one environment where mistakes are just data points. We analyze the mistake, fix the structure, and try again. This process turns the \u201cmessy middle\u201d of learning into a clear path toward professional fluency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.marblism.com\/c4FLyVk6n_-.webp\" alt=\"Michael Cannon, a supportive and professional English coach\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Key Vocabulary Glossary<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><thead><tr><th>Term<\/th><th>Meaning<\/th><th>Example Sentence<\/th><th>Chinese instructions<\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td>Framework<\/td><td>A framework.<\/td><td>\u201cUsing a framework helps me organize my thoughts quickly.\u201d<\/td><td>Framework. It's like a \"map\" for speaking, allowing you to avoid grasping at random points in your mind and communicate more logically.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Ownership<\/td><td>Ownership.<\/td><td>\u201cThe goal is for you to take ownership of your English progress.\u201d<\/td><td>Ownership\/Proactivity. When you stop asking \"What should I say?\" and instead think \"How do I express my thoughts?\", you take ownership.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Evidence<\/td><td>Evidence.<\/td><td>\u201cYour success in today's meeting is evidence of your improvement.\u201d<\/td><td>Evidence. Confidence doesn't come out of thin air. It comes from seeing yourself truly accomplish something, and that's the strongest evidence.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Obstacle<\/td><td>Obstacle.<\/td><td>\u201cWe need to identify the obstacles preventing you from speaking up.\u201d<\/td><td>Obstacles. In class, we're not here to memorize more words, but to find and move that big rock that's preventing you from speaking.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Dependency<\/td><td>Dependence.<\/td><td>\u201cRelying on a translator creates a dependency that limits your growth.\u201d<\/td><td>Dependence. A good teacher won't let you keep asking for answers, but will teach you to fish for yourself, so you won't be dependent on the teacher.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Constructive feedback<\/td><td>Helpful information about a person's past behavior.<\/td><td>\u201cSpecific and constructive feedback is essential for fast learning.\u201d<\/td><td>Constructive feedback. It's not just saying \"hang in there,\" but precisely telling you what's good and where you can improve, that's true progress.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Hesitate<\/td><td>To hesitate before saying or doing something.<\/td><td>\u201cDo not hesitate to share your opinion, even if your grammar is not perfect.\u201d<\/td><td>Hesitation. Many Taiwanese students are actually very good at English, but they hesitate because they're afraid of making mistakes. This is exactly what we aim to overcome in the classroom.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Authentic<\/td><td>Authentic.<\/td><td>\u201cWe focus on authentic English used in real professional settings.\u201d<\/td><td>Authentic\/real. We don't learn those stiff sentences from textbooks, but rather the words that foreign colleagues actually use in the office.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you're ready to turn the English you know into English you can use, let's talk. Every lesson is designed to give you practical practice and clear feedback, so you'll leave feeling more capable every time you speak.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>If you don't like your first lesson, you don't have to pay. Let's build your evidence together.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/IMCEnglish.com\/book-lesson\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Book your one-on-one consultation at IMCEnglish.com today.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div><script type=\"application\/ld+json\">{\n    \"@type\": \"BlogPosting\",\n    \"image\": \"https:\\\/\\\/cdn.marblism.com\\\/P04Qkic576S.webp\",\n    \"author\": {\n        \"name\": \"Michael Cannon\",\n        \"@type\": \"Person\"\n    },\n    \"@context\": \"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\n    \"headline\": \"What Teaching English Taught Me About Helping You Speak with Confidence\",\n    \"publisher\": {\n        \"logo\": {\n            \"url\": \"https:\\\/\\\/cdn.marblism.com\\\/x75geEMGaC4.png\",\n            \"@type\": \"ImageObject\"\n        },\n        \"name\": \"IMCEnglish.com\",\n        \"@type\": \"Organization\"\n    },\n    \"description\": \"Learn how teaching English changed Michael Cannon's view on leadership and how it can help you master \\u82f1\\u6587\\u53e3\\u8aaa\\u7df4\\u7fd2. 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